Sacramental Preparation

First Reconciliation and First Eucharist

The Diocese of Charlotte requires at least one full year of formal religious education (Catholic school or faith formation) prior to receiving the Sacrament of First Reconciliation, and at least two full years of formal religious education prior to receiving the Sacrament of First Holy Eucharist. Therefore, if your child is in public or private (not Catholic) school, your child must be registered in first grade faith formation in order to receive the sacraments in second grade. Catholic school children must also register with the St. Matthew Office of Faith Formation when they are in second grade to prepare to receive the sacraments.

If your child is older than second grade and has not received the sacraments, St. Matthew offers a program called Special Sacraments to prepare them.  This program is a two-year commitment as well, and will include one year of religious education in the grade level equal to their school grade, followed by a year in Special Sacraments to receive both First Reconciliation and First Holy Eucharist.

Outside of formal religious education, St. Matthew provides families with a sacramental preparation book designed to be completed by parent and child. It is also required that a parent attend a Parent Learning Opportunity in September for preparation of First Reconciliation and in January for preparation of First Holy Eucharist. These opportunities are offered to comply with diocesan guidelines and to support parents as the primary educators of their child in the Catholic faith. The final step of preparing is a Sacramental Parent-Child Retreat held in November for First Reconciliation and in April for First Eucharist.

A copy of the child’s baptismal certificate must be on file with the Office of Faith Formation prior to reception of the sacraments.



The Sacrament of First Eucharist
2015-2016 School Year

2016 Parent Learning Opportunities
Wednesday, Jan. 20 at 9:30 am

Saturday, Jan. 23 at 10 am
Thursday, Jan. 28 at 7 pm

  • Choose one of the above times. Only one parent needs to attend.
  • Come to the narthex (front of church) to check in and pick up materials.
  • Meeting lasts approximately 30 minutes. Please plan appropriately to stay for the whole meeting.

2016 Parent-Child First Eucharist Retreat
Saturday, April 16

  • Please arrive 10-15 minutes before assigned retreat time (8 am, 11 am or 2 pm).
  • Make sure you and your child have eaten, food is not served at the retreat. The retreat lasts the full 2½ hours, please plan appropriately!

2016 Celebration of First Holy Eucharist
Friday, May 6 and Saturday, May 7

  • Parents will request their preference for Mass selection at the Parent Learning Opportunity in January. You will be notified in February of your assigned Mass.
  • Children are expected to arrive at the church one hour prior to the start of the Mass.
  • A professional photographer will capture your child’s sacred and special moment of reception of the sacrament. Information will be provided at the Parent-Child Retreat in April.

Sacramental Coordinator: Lori Mathews  704-541-8362 x 5


Confirmation is a Catholic sacrament of mature Christian commitment and a deepening of baptismal gifts. It is one of the three Sacraments of Initiation for Catholics. It is most often associated with the gifts of the Holy Spirit.

Confirmation of our youth is offered under the direction of our Faith Formation Program. Preparation occurs during the seventh and eighth grades and concludes in the ninth grade. For more information, contact the Office of Faith Formation at 704-541-8362.

Adults seeking Confirmation should inquire about the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) Program. Please call Tom Lindemuth at 704-543-7677 x 1063.