Confirmation 2020 Announcement

Confirmation 2020 Announcement

The Lord is good! Let us rejoice and be glad because we have received our rescheduled Confirmation dates from the Office of the Bishop! We are beyond excited to finally have this year’s candidates receive their Confirmation at the end of this summer!

Our six Confirmation Masses will be held at 6 pm on the following dates:

  • Wednesday, August 26th
  • Friday, August 28th
  • Tuesday, September 1st
  • Friday, September 4th
  • Tuesday, September 8th
  • Wednesday, September 9th


Because of the extenuating circumstances this year, we ask families to choose the Mass that their candidate will be confirmed. Before you jump to the sign up link, please read through our updated Confirmation FAQ document. Also, keep in mind that we have over 430 candidates this year, so we ask for patience and flexibility as you are choosing your Mass time.

The slots to sign-up for a Mass are limited in order to maintain numbers that allow for safe, social distanced seating in the church. Reserving ONE SLOT represents the candidate, their sponsor or proxy, and up to 4 additional family members. Exceptions to this will only be made if more than this number live in the same household, or it is a separated, divorced, or blended family situation.

For any other questions regarding the Confirmation Mass, please first refer to the FAQ linked above. If that document does not answer your question, then please email Avery Utz.

Thank you for your patience and prayers as we go through the exciting planning process for this year’s Confirmation. Let us renew our efforts in praying for this year’s candidates, that this sacrament may light a new flame in their hearts! Come, Holy Spirit!

Here is the link to sign up for a Confirmation Mass.


Are you, or is someone you know, considering joining the Catholic Church? Are you, or is someone you know, hoping to receive the sacrament of Confirmation or recommit to the Catholic Church after a long time away?

We have two RCIA inquiry nights coming up:

Option 1:
August 10, 2020, 7 pm
Zoom – join us via zoom to hear more about the RCIA program and ask any questions you might have.
Zoom meeting link:

Option 2:
August 20, 2020, 7 pm
Banquet Room, St. Matthew Catholic Church
Please note, a mask covering the nose and mouth are required at all times when on our campus.

See the RCIA page on the website, available via this link, for an interest form, schedule, and more.

Questions? Contact Rachel Willoughby at

SMU Fall Classes

Coming Soon!

SMU class schedule is coming soon… Watch this website and the bulletin for the schedule to be posted mid-August with classes beginning around later September.

Walk with others, engage in his presence, and build your relationship with Jesus by learning more about his words and their meaning with an in-depth study.



At you will be able to view Catholic content in studies, audios, e-books, documentaries, movies and so much more. There is a wide variety of Children’s content as well.

Here is an audio by Dr. Brant Pitre on FORMED: Jesus the Bridegroom 

In this stunning talk, Dr. Pitre applies his knowledge of the Jewish roots of Christianity to the very heart of the Gospel: the love of Christ. You will learn what it really means to have a “personal relationship” with Jesus Christ as Lord, Savior, and Bridegroom.

To register for free… How do parishioners register for our parish’s FORMED subscription?
Registering for FORMED is easier than ever:
1. Go to
2. Select your parish by entering name, city and/or zip code
3. Register with your name and email address
4. Check that email account for a link to begin using FORMED

Contact Judy Stumbo for help:

2020-2021 Faith Formation Program Registration

It is with pleasure that we share with you the options available for families in the 2020-2021 program year!  Any adults or confirmed high school teens interested in volunteering are asked to contact the Office of Faith Formation.  Registration links are now live!  Visit our REGISTRATION page to complete yours!

Statement on Combatting Racism

A letter from our priests
Dear St. Matthew Family,
The brutal death of George Floyd and other African Americans in police custody has again brought national attention to the issue of racial injustice in our country. We, the priests of St. Matthew Catholic Church, stand in full solidarity with the recent statements of Pope Francis, Archbishop José Gomez, and the chairmen of the US bishops committees condemning these actions and calling on all Catholics to respond to the issue of racism in our time.
Racism is a sin against the truth that we are all created in the image of God, equal in dignity as part of one human family (Gen 1:27). Racism is a sin against the truth that we are united in Christ, such that in the Church “there is neither Jew nor Greek… for you are all one in Christ” (Gal 3:28). Racism is a sin against the truth that we are all called to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, a place for “every nation… all tribes and peoples and tongues” (Rev 7:9). Racism is a sin against the truth that God has given human beings differences of race and culture in order to enrich society and the Church by the diversity of the human family.
Racism is a sin against justice and charity because it is a failure to recognize the human dignity of our brothers and sisters. As St. John teaches us, “he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen” (1 John 4:20); indeed, “anyone who hates his brother is a murderer” (1 John 3:15).
As the US bishops reminded us in their 2018 pastoral letter, Open Wide Our Hearts, racism is a sin that can take different forms. It can be a personal sin arising from an attitude of the heart, leading to exclusion, mistreatment, ridicule, or unjust discrimination against other persons on the basis of their race or ethnicity. Racism can be a sin of omission, when we fail to act against racially unjust actions perpetrated by others. Racism can also be institutional, when personal sins of racism accumulate over time to create institutions, practices, or traditions that treat certain groups of people unjustly.
The US bishops have continually called attention to the lasting social effects of slavery, segregation, lynching, and other injustices perpetrated against African Americans in our nation’s history. We must resolve to contend with this tragic legacy and right the wrongs that remain. As the US bishops have stated: “Racism can only end if we contend with the policies and institutional barriers that perpetuate and preserve the inequality—economic and social—that we still see all around us. With renewed vigor, we call on the members of the Body of Christ to join others in advocating and promoting policies at all levels that will combat racism and its effects in our civic and social institutions.”
In the voices of so many who are crying out in the streets of our nation we hear a powerful testimony to the fact that we still live in a society where many feel excluded and unheard. As Catholics we must be attentive and willing to listen to the voices of our brothers and sisters during this time, knowing that “If one member suffers, all suffer together” (1 Cor 12:26). We must seek real change through deeper conversion in our hearts and our lives, our homes, and our churches. We must act to correct any unjust policies and practices in our country.
We must contend with racism wherever it is found, always keeping in mind the words of St. Paul in the twelfth chapter of the Letter to the Romans: “Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with brotherly affection… Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
Please know that your priests are united with you in prayer as we all seek deeper conversion to the fullness of justice and charity to which God calls us in Christ Jesus.
In Christ,
Father John Allen – Parochial Administrator
Father Peter Ascik – Parochial Vicar
Father Binoy Daivs – Parochial Vicar
St. Matthew Catholic Church

Major Gift From St. Matthew Catholic Church Will Assist Those Most Affected By Pandemic

CHARLOTTE, North Carolina, June 13, 2020 – Five major gifts totaling $250,000 are going to five Charlotte-area charities serving on the front lines of the coronavirus pandemic, from the largest Roman Catholic parish in the United States.

St. Matthew Catholic Church is giving $50,000 each to Crisis Assistance Ministry of Charlotte, Loaves & Fishes, Roof Above (formerly known as Urban Ministry and Men’s Shelter of Charlotte), Union County Crisis Assistance and Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Charlotte.

Charities that provide relief to individuals and families in need in our community have seen a decline in donations due to the economic impacts of the pandemic, while at the same time facing a dramatic increase in people coming to them for help.

That makes charitable giving even more critically needed at this moment, said the Rev. John Allen, parochial administrator of St. Matthew Catholic Church, “when the need for God and for the virtues of charity, humility and civility have never been greater.”

“Such a gift is only possible because of the faithful stewardship and sacrificial giving of our parish family,” Allen said of his south Charlotte parish, which has a membership of nearly 12,000 families.

The gift will enable Catholic Charities to continue serving people “living on the peripheries,” providing food aid, mental health counseling and other vital social services, said Dr. Gerard Carter, executive director and CEO.

“This funding is especially indispensable at this point in time as we actively provide direct services to those impacted by COVID-19,” Carter said. “As we unofficially say, ‘the world may have been on pause’ but the work of Catholic Charities has continued every single day since the arrival of coronavirus in our state.”

“What a wonderful gift St. Matthew has provided at a time when we are seeing unprecedented needs across this city, not only for shelter but for food, health care and emergency financial assistance to help people stay in their homes,” said Roof Above CEO Liz Clasen-Kelly. “At Roof Above we remain committed to ending homelessness in our community, and generosity like that of St. Matthew will put us one step closer to realizing that aspiration.”

Click here for a WSOC piece that mentions our parish’s gift. (mention of St. Matthew is in the video, not the article)

Mass Resumes at St. Matthew

We are so happy and grateful to announce that Masses will resume at St. Matthew the weekend of June 6 and 7. Masses will be held on Saturdays at 5:30 pm and Sundays at 9 am and 12:30 pm, with very limited seating capacity. While we are filled with joy, we are also anticipating some time of adjustment as we get used to our new procedures and limited capacity. During this time, we ask for our parish family to treat each other and our clergy and staff with kindness, approach the new Mass procedures with patience and understand that while we are thrilled to be back in our Church and worshipping with you, it’s going to feel “different” and will take a bit of getting used to. We ask that you please take the time to carefully read the new procedures document, attached here, in order to avoid any surprises and to make sure you feel as comfortable as possible attending Mass.

Please remember there is still a dispensation granted from Bishop Jugis if you are not comfortable attending Mass, and we will still be streaming Mass online. We will also continue to offer Communion services Sunday, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. The sign-ups for Communion services can be accessed here.

Please continue to pray for our parish as we navigate these new procedures and are able to begin celebrating Masses as a parish family. We are thankful for you and are blessed to have such a vibrant and engaged parish community!


Looking forward to our church opening back up for Masses? Please take the time to watch this very informative video that explains all procedures and processes that will be in place as we return. We look forward to celebrating Mass with you!

Sidewalk Advocates for Life Online Training Available

Would you like to learn how to help mothers in crisis pregnancies choose life at the abortion center? Sidewalk Advocates for Life offers a comprehensive training course in peaceful, prayerful, law-abiding sidewalk advocacy (sidewalk counseling) methods that seek to reach the woman’s heart and supply her needs so she can confidently choose life. Now, for a limited time, this training course can be completed online! Get trained and become part of our local team of dedicated pro-life advocates working to help women and end abortion in our community. To get started, please fill out a brief application at Then we will be in touch with the next steps for accessing the online training.
There is a $15 dollar donation for this training to help cover program costs.
For questions, contact our Charlotte chapter at:
Program Director: Father Peter Ascik
Find more information at